Legalize Gay Marriage?

By Bill at November 04, 2009 10:43
Filed Under: Politics

s-MAINE-GAY-MARRIAGE-large This started as a simple Facebook status , but for some reason, a Facebook status can only be 420 characters long.  My submission was 628 characters long and when that wasn’t accepted I was forced to move the whole thing here.

It all started with a few expressions of disappointment some friends made about Maine voters repealing a state law that would have allowed same-sex couples to marry. While I shared their disappointment, I was becoming increasingly offended by the descriptions of the repealed law that all included something similar to the description above about “allowing” or “permitting” same-sex couples to get married as if “we” all knew better and had decided that it was OK for “them”.  I found myself in a weird situation of being offended by a law that I had hoped would stand. 

Here is my original status message:

Why does same-sex marriage need to be legalized? Was mixed-sex marriage ever legalized? Was mixed-race marriage ever legalized? Trying to “make it legal” assumes that without legislation it is illegal. That's backwards.  It's ceding the right and then asking for it back. Freedom to marry, or not marry, resides with the individual and cannot be granted or infringed by the State. We need to insist on this and take down any laws that say otherwise.  We can't legalize marriage any more than we can legalize happiness.  It is one of our unalienable rights.  As unfortunate as the decision in Maine is, I think it's for the best.

The law legalizing same-sex marriage in Maine has been repealed, but I think it was a dangerous law to begin with.  It’s because laws can be repealed that something as important as marriage shouldn’t be legislated.  It opens up to debate that which should not be debated.  Rather than fighting for something that should already be, we need to defeat that which denies it.  Rather than passing laws that legalize same-sex marriage we need to rewrite or repeal laws that say it is illegal.  We need to challenge the people and institutions that stand in the way of what is already ours. 

So, while I’m disappointed that people in Maine have voted to deny rights to same-sex couples, I’m even more disappointed that they thought that this was something they could vote on in the first place. 

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Five Favorite Lyrics

By Bill at April 15, 2009 16:25
Filed Under: Music

What are your favorite song lyrics?

Technically, this is a repost.  I'm re-posting it for a number of reasons.  I first put this together when I got on Facebook and everyone was doing lists.  Since then I've hooked up with a lot of old friends who might enjoy this.  Also, I much prefer the lists thing to the quizes thing and I'm hoping to reignite that craze.  Finally, last time around I didn't know what I was doing and I didn't include any rules.  So, here it goes. 

By the way, this was originally designed for Facebook.  If you're reading this on my website, submit your entries as a comment to this article.

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Copy the text of these instructions and paste them into a new note.  In that note include your five favorite song lyrics.  Tag five or more friends who might appreciate this and ask them to post their five.  The five lyrics should be from five different songs.  Try not to include more than one verse or chorus.  Definitely do not include the whole song - that clearly doesn't count.  You could include more than five songs, but that would just be showing off.  Tag me so I can see your lyrics.

 

Ain't it just like the night to play tricks when you're tryin' to be so quiet?
We sit here stranded, though we're all doin' our best to deny it
And Louise holds a handful of rain, temptin' you to defy it
Lights flicker from the opposite loft
In this room the heat pipes just cough
The country music station plays soft
But there's nothing, really nothing to turn off
Just Louise and her lover so entwined
And these visions of Johanna that conquer my mind
Visions of Johana
Bob Dylan

 

Daylight licked me into shape
I must have been asleep for days
And moving lips to breathe her name
I opened up my eyes
And found myself alone alone
Alone above a raging sea
That stole the only girl I loved
And drowned her deep inside of me
Just Like Heaven
The Cure

 

In my dream I was drowning my sorrows
But my sorrows, they learned to swim
Surrounding me, going down on me
Spilling over the brim
Waves of regret, waves of joy
I reached out for the one I tried to destroy
You, you said you'd wait till the end of the world.
Until the End of the World
U2

 

I could live without so much
I can die without a clue
Sun keeps risin' in the west
I keep on wakin' fully confused
I never seen no mountain
Never swam no sea
City got me drownin'
I guess it's up to me
I can't live without your touch
I can't live without your touch
Within Your Reach
The Replacements

 

Moves like a fist through the traffic
Anger and no one can heal it
Shoves a little bump into the momentum
It's just a little lump
But you feel it
In the creases and the shadows
With a rattling deep emotion
The cool, cool river
Sweeps the wild, white ocean
The Cool, Cool River
Paul Simon
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New Facebook Application – My Playlist

By Bill at February 26, 2009 14:11
Filed Under: .Net Programming, Random, Music

I’ve written a new Facebook application called My Playlist. The application displays a playlist like the one shown here on your profile either on your wall or on your boxes tab.  It works by reading an XML file version of your playlist off of any FTP or WWW server on the internet.

The easiest way to get an XML export of your playlist is to use a plug-in for your music player.  Brandon Fullerhas written plug-ins for iTunes, Windows Media Player, WinAmp and Yahoo! Music Engine.

Brandon has also written a Facebook application that will show information about the last song you played.  I took that idea and expanded it into the entire playlist.

I used the Facebook.Net toolkit to write the application using .Net in VisualStudio 2008.  There were some interesting hoops I had to jump through to get the playlist to show in the profile at all and to get the “Add To Profile” button to show up on the application start page.  I think that story deserves an article all of its own.  I hope to get around to writing that sometime soon.

Testers Needed

Right now, I need a few patient people to actually test this application out.  I say patient because there is a little bit involved in getting the plug-in installed and working and because after going through all that, there’s a small possibility that it won’t work at all.

One of the problems is that Brandon Fuller’s plug-in costs $15.  I will get a license for anybody who is willing to test this for me.

Another problem is that the output of the plug-in, the XML file, needs to be hosted somewhere on the internet where it can be downloaded by my program.  This means an FTP or WWW server.  I suspect that most people don’t have their own servers and wouldn’t know how to find one.  Luckily, I do have an FTP server and will gladly host a place for you to put your XML file.

All this leaves is actually installing the plug-in and setting a few settings and I can help out with that.

If I haven’t lost you yet and you are still reading and you are interested in trying this out, let me know. 

If you’re not sure that you want to help out, don’t worry about it.  This is just for fun and isn’t important at all.  I won’t hold it against you if you don’t try my application.  Really.  If you still want to help put, leave a comment on the application page or become a fan.

[Link to application on Facebook]

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The Internet Is All About Joiners

By Bill at February 22, 2009 20:09
Filed Under: Random

Something has been bothering me for a few days now.  A friend of mine posted something about being on Facebook for 5 years now and how time flies.  I thought to myself about how I totally agreed.  I was thinking how I couldn’t believe that Isaac is almost 8 years old now or that I’ve been married for 12 years now.

However, someone replied about how fascinating it is that people are still joining Facebook and how they all think it is novel and amazing.  Now, I’ve had my fair share of being called a poseur for coming to some fad or another too late, but when it comes to the internet, you don’t get too many earlier adopters than me.  I was all set to reply with something along the lines of, “Listen noob, I’ve been using the internet since you were in diapers.”  However, I’d be seriously dating myself, so I figured I should act my age.

There is a point to be made here though.  I got my first internet email address in 1988.  Actually, it was BITNET back then, but the idea was the same. I was able to send email to my friends at other universities and even chat using Relay (which later became IRC) and we had access the Usenet BBS.  Later we eventually got Archie and Veronica(not the comic book characters).  Back then, there were so few people on the internet that it was actually big news when another university came online.  People wrote volumes and volumes of help documents (called FAQs) just to help the new users get up to speed quicker.  There was a real sense of welcoming the new users.

The first time I sensed a backlash was when PPP became prevalent around 1993 or 1994.  All of a sudden, people could access the internet directly from their GUI desktops instead of having to use all of the esoteric commands on shell accounts.Suddenly, it seemed like the population on the internet doubled over night and most of the new users had no idea how things worked.  Their GUIs were shielding them from all of the technology underneath, but they were also keeping them from learning the ins and outs.  This was probably the first time I came across the term “newbie”.  There’s only so many times one can answer the same question over and over before it gets old.  A lot of us that used to be helpful guides were becoming rude out of frustration. 

But PPP really was easier and the conversations really were getting better.  I jumped on the PPP bandwagon right away, but there were others that stuck to their shell accounts and got nastier and nastier.  I suspect that a small few of them are still pecking away at their shell accounts, but I’m sure most of them came around and joined all of the “newbies”.

The next time things got nasty was when AOL got internet access.  Again, it seemed as though the population on the internet doubled over night and again it seemed as though all of the new users were completely clueless. By this time, the WWW was ubiquitous and again the conversations were getting better and the content was getting more interesting.  Don’t forget, AOL virtually introduced instant messaging to the internet, and for the first time one was able to send email to people without a degree in computer science; even my parents got email.

Anyway, my point is that there is no end to the new people that will come to the internet, but as the population grows, so does the usefulness.  Face it, social networks wouldn’t be half as interesting if there weren’t millions of people using them.  I know I for one am glad that I’m not still trying to remember all of the command line options to IRC and ZModem.

So, the next time someone remarks about how novel something on the internet is, remember that you’re not the first to be in that situation and he or she’s not the last to one marvel at it.  And be glad, because that new user means that the internet is growing and will inevitably be even more interesting and useful in the future.  Oh, and don’t be a troll.

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10 Questions About Music

By Bill at February 22, 2009 14:46
Filed Under: Music, Random

Answer honestly and try not to appear cool -- it doesn't work amongst friends. After answering, tag those whose musical taste you wish to know more about.

  1. What are you listening to right now?
    As I’m writing this, I am listening to “What Would You Have Me Say” by Blue Sandcastle .
    However, if you want to know what I’m listening to right now, you can look at my playlist.
  2. As a teenager, what was a band you were ashamed to admit to liking?
    As a very young teen, it was Men at Work.  Later, all of my friends and I were into “Alternative” music, but I still really liked Dire Straits too.
  3. And today?
    Wow, there’s so much to be embarrassed by.  One that comes to mind is Avril Lavigne.  I got exposed when Carl’s daughters were teenagers and it just stuck.

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  1. Have you met an artist you admired? How did it go?
    I once literally bumped into Bono.  He was making a cell phone call on the street and wasn’t paying any attention.  When he hung up, he turned around and walked right into me.  He said, “Sorry mate.”  I didn’t say anything.  This was the day that U2 recorded “All Because of You” video in New York.  It was the day before Thanksgiving and later that night Deb and I were on our way to see the balloon blow up party at AMNH and it happened on 90th & CPW.   Since I didn’t say anything this hardly counts as having met him, but the story is definitely worth telling.  I didn’t say anything to Deb about it until a block later and she still bugs me about it.

    Also, just after I graduated from college, I worked as an audio technician for a company that did work for NPR.  I met several artists that I admire including Neil Young, B.B. King, Charles Brown and Bubba Hernandez.  Unfortunately, I didn’t have more than a few words with any of them.

    Finally, I’ve been friends with Courtney Taylor of the Dandy Warhols for a long time and can honestly say he is one of the nicest people I know.
  1. Have you had dreams about bands or artists?
    I’m sure I have, but I can’t think of any.
  2. What was your first gig attended?
    It was either the Ramones at Spit or 10,000 Maniacs at Malibu, but my first big-arena concert was The Alarm opening for Pat Benatar at Nassau Coliseum.
  3. Which living artist have you not seen, but desperately want to?
    I can’t think of any, but I’ll let you know.
  4. Which artist or what band would you like to resurrect and see live?
    Haven’t they all regrouped already?
  5. Which song/riff/solo would you like to learn to play and sing just right?
    I don’t play or sing, so being able to play or sing anything even poorly would rock my world.
  6. How many records do you own, or how many songs do you have in your iTunes?
    There are 5796 songs in my iTunes right now, but about a thousand of them are not in rotation.
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What Are Your Favorite Song Lyrics?

By Bill at February 04, 2009 11:25
Filed Under: Random, Music

What are your favorite song lyrics?

Kevin asked for everone's single favorie song lyric. I offered the first verse of Dylan's Visions of Johanna, but I can't leave it at that. In fact, I prefaced my entry by saying that I would be second guessing it for a week. I've decided to keep track of all of my second guesses here in hopes that I might be able to comfortably stop thinking about it. So, following is a list of what might be my favorite song lyrics. Please comment with your own favortes.

Ain't it just like the night to play tricks when you're tryin' to be so quiet?
We sit here stranded, though we're all doin' our best to deny it
And Louise holds a handful of rain, temptin' you to defy it
Lights flicker from the opposite loft
In this room the heat pipes just cough
The country music station plays soft
But there's nothing, really nothing to turn off
Just Louise and her lover so entwined
And these visions of Johanna that conquer my mind
Visions of Johana
Bob Dylan

Daylight licked me into shape
I must have been asleep for days
And moving lips to breathe her name
I opened up my eyes
And found myself alone alone
Alone above a raging sea
That stole the only girl I loved
And drowned her deep inside of me
Just Like Heaven
The Cure

In my dream I was drowning my sorrows
But my sorrows, they learned to swim
Surrounding me, going down on me
Spilling over the brim
Waves of regret, waves of joy
I reached out for the one I tried to destroy
You, you said you'd wait till the end of the world.
Until the End of the World
U2

I could live without so much
I can die without a clue
Sun keeps risin' in the west
I keep on wakin' fully confused
I never seen no mountain
Never swam no sea
City got me drownin'
I guess it's up to me
I can't live without your touch
I can't live without your touch
Within Your Reach
The Replacements

Moves like a fist through the traffic
Anger and no one can heal it
Shoves a little bump into the momentum
It's just a little lump
But you feel it
In the creases and the shadows
With a rattling deep emotion
The cool, cool river
Sweeps the wild, white ocean
The Cool, Cool River
Paul Simon
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Bill is Director of Technology for Coleman Insights. He enjoys programming, software design, walking, reading, dining out and watching movies, most of which he enjoys even more when he doing them with his wife, Deb, and or his son, Isaac.  Bill and Isaac are working on a video game, but they haven't made very much progress yet.

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Deb dabbled in Project Management in the Advertising industry for (too) many years. She has happily ditched that and is taking some time to decide what is next career-wise. She enjoys gardening, knitting, sewing and various other crafty things. She also enjoys vegetating on the weekends with the family.

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